• If you could have lived in another time period and watched or joined one epic battle, which would it be?

• Ephesians 6:12 says that "our struggle is not against flesh and blood," but against unseen forces of evil. So, in truth we are in an epic battle. In what ways might Satan attack our marriage?

• As a reminder, look at your spouse and say, "You are my partner, not my enemy!"

Division in the Ranks

Since you are on the same team, discuss together which of the following is most likely to create "division in the ranks" in your marriage. Why?

• Disagreement over how to discipline - NAME CHILD

• Who apologizes first after an argument

• When and how we enjoy physical intimacy

• How to spend or save our money

• Other areas?

Take turns answering each of the following questions.

• Just before the first battle in the film, Gladiator, Russel Crowe has that great line where he reminds his troops: "What we do in life echoes in eternity."“ How can you apply this to the fight for your marriage?

• What are two issues you most need to fight FOR as a couple right now? (i.e. Date nights, Praying together, Church involvement, Bible reading, Forgiveness, Healthy intimacy, Communication)

Assignments for Today and for the Week

• Hold hands and pray for each other about these two issues either aloud or, if you prefer, silently.

• Identify one thing you can cut from your schedule in order to use the time to nurture your marriage relationship in the coming week.

• How does understanding God's design for marriage change or influence that answer?